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Being strong and independent is not easy. I am lucky because I am head strong and determined so these qualities have really helped me out. So much has changed lately, its not easy to get my head around everything. Staying occupied and active helps, thinking is not a good idea, so I avoid it, I watch movies and write silly ramblings on a daily basis ensuring I am positive and I smile, always smiling, its actually become a habit… so has smoking… which I need to address really. Change is good, its hard and often sad and upsetting, you always have doubts and for a long while you are likely to be scared. I hadn’t cried in a long time, but today I did, it’s been a long time coming and I hope is passes soon. For anyone out there feeling scared or sad, things happen for a reason, I don’t believe they happen for a divine reason, just because we are who we are and things happen no matter how much we try to avoid or stop them, they will happen and people will get hurt, its not easy and crying is okay. So cry, cry hard and when you’re done smile!!

Well I cannot actually remember how long it was when I wrote my last (boring) post. I have been listening to HIM and it seems to have got my creative juices flowing once again. I must thank Li for getting me listening to HIM, she has been a dedicated [...]

Very few Brit’s know who Matt Czuchry is and I think that’s a real shame. He is best known for his role  as the rich yet very lovable Logan Huntzberger, boyfriend of Rory in the Gilmore Girls. Since the show ended he appeared in Friday Night Lights (which I [...]

This girl I mentioned in my previous post, her name is Isabella. She has decided she needs to face her fear. It is time she realises she has greatness inside her, real potential to be a success.

Her biggest fear is failing. So far in life she has avoided failure [...]

So, there is this girl, she is 20 something, keeps herself to herself and has a dream. For her, this dream is a pretty big deal, but she is really scared of what might happen if she pursues it. She knows it won’t come easy, but there is this [...]

If you don’t have it DON’T SPEND IT, pretty simple really kids.

My friend and I were due a trip to the cinema before Christmas and we decided on Twilight. Partly because she likes Harry Potter and mentioned that the guy who played Cedric Diggory was playing one of the lead characters and also because another friend told me it was [...]

Have you seen the news today?? Children as young as 5 were expelled from schools last year for sexual bullying.  A 5 and 6 year old were caught trying to elope to Africa. I ask you… what on earth is going on??? I don’t know about you guys but [...]